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Discover the practical, powerful approach that’s transforming co-parenting and helping separated parents raise happy, resilient children. Expert co-parenting coach Marcie Shaoul introduces her ground-breaking six-step method, providing you with the exact tools, skills, and mindset needed to communicate effectively, reduce conflict, and build a nurturing environment for your kids.
This clear, actionable best-selling guide has been bought by 1000s of co-parents. It is filled with insights, proven techniques, and real-life strategies designed for today’s co-parenting challenges. Start your journey toward cooperative parenting, peaceful family dynamics, and a happier future for you and your children today.

"It is inspirational. I am not aware that anything like it has been written before. Marcie knows that her method works. Her energy and enthusiasm spring off every page. Many of you who have taken up a copy of this book will have done so at a sad, bewildering and most difficult time of your lives. I hope that you will have the confidence and courage to trust in the method and see it through."
Sir Andrew McFarlane
President of the Family Division & Head of Family Justice
The most senior judge in the Family Courts of England and Wales
Step 1: Moving from pain to long-term gain.
In this step we talk about the move from a short-term mindset to a long-term mindset. We will create a vision of what co-parenting can be.
By the end of the step, you’ll understand its value for you and your children. This will make it easier for you to take the first steps away from conflict with your ex-partner and towards a co-parenting future with them.

Step 2: Alleviating strong emotions.
Big emotions can affect our co-parenting in a various ways. They can stand in the way of us truly listening to our co-parent. They can mean we’re not concentrating fully on our children.
In this step, we learn how to manage those emotions, so we can bring up our children in a more stable environment.

Step 3: Reinforcing healthy boundaries.
In this step, we turn our attention to the importance of looking at things from our co-parent’s perspective and then how to set boundaries and recognise our co-parent’s boundaries.
Seeing things from our co-parent’s perspective is essential for building a collaborative Co-Parental Loop.

Step 4: Communicating without conflict.
When we communicate well we reduce conflict and can start to make better decisions together. Communication isn’t just about what we say, it’s also about how we listen, and that’s one of the key parts of this step.
In this step, you'll build brilliant foundations on which you learn how to de-escalate conflict to have solid conversations together.

Step 5: Making effective decisions.
In this step, we look at how we ease decision-making with our co-parent and make durable decisions for our children’s present and future. The decision-making part of co-parenting is why you do all the rest of it.
Parenting requires lots of decisions to be made and when you have a reliable formula for doing that successfully, your co-parenting improves.

Step 6: Beyond surviving to thriving.
It’s crucial for your children to see you thriving and not just surviving. When you are thriving you’re fulfilled, you feel happier overall and you have high levels of resilience.
In this step, we'll explore tools that will help keep you in a strong place, allow you to stay in control, manage any tricky co-parenting times that may come your way and move towards a fulfilled life. I want you to feel good about yourself and your co-parenting. You’ve done hard things and you deserve this!




Family Law Partner at RWK Goodman LLP.


Parent


Master, Pembroke College Oxford and Former Senior President of Tribunals.


Co-Founder, Amicable – the award winning online legal service for separating couples
Marcie is a proud co-parent and an award-winning co-parenting coach, passionate about helping families thrive. Since 2016, she has been guiding co-parents in creating safe, supportive spaces where their kids can flourish.
Marcie is the best-selling author of the internationally acclaimed book 'The Co-Parenting Method: Six steps to raise happy kids after separation and divorce'.
Recognised as an international expert, Marcie’s approach has been described as nothing short of game-changing.
Her insights have been featured in The Sunday Times, Grazia, Mother & Baby, Tatler , This Morning and on leading co-parenting podcasts - inspiring countless families to navigate their journey with confidence and care.












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